Feelings and emotions have a way of overpowering the judgement of a sound mind in such an overzealous manner, that all logical calculations are squarely dumped. The essence of salt is not thought of until it is absent(or excessive). Similarly, actions are not judged before they give rise to a consequence.
Betrayal causes one to be strong by killing the greatest weakness of man - his emotions. Its far more beneficial to experience those momentary depths of intense sadness than to be paralyzed for life by the fear of facing them someday. Its counter intuitive to think one could play hardball with ones emotions. They have an innate need to be felt and occur naturally. In order to deal with them, one has to let them flow without impeding their natural tendency. As a matter of fact, emotions can heal the mental scars caused by stress and trauma and indicate a persons well being.
"Out of your vulnerabilities will come your strength." - Sigmund Freud
Time is a great healer. However difficult might it seem to think ones sorrows will not go away, they always do. Just like every dawg has its day, all beings have their share of emotions, both good, as well as bad. The one thing we fail to realize is that life goes on. It's not going to stop for anybody in spite of feeling indispensable. The need for proceeding teaches everything and makes one realize that adapting to evolving circumstances is one of the greatest virtues of nature. If anything stops for anyone, its demise is most certain.
Although, one can safely say that the lessons of time do leave noticeable scars. There is no question of whether you want to learn. The only choice life gives is the manner in which you choose to learn, the easy or the hard way. Disappointment hardly arises because there is no ranking, there's only pass or fail without any comparison.
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